I met Bistyek in Winnipeg, already knowing two things about him: that he was an artist and that he was Kurdish. I introduced myself in Kurmanji, expecting that we would immediately find common ground. We did, but only to a point. Although we belonged to the same people and spoke the same dialect, our everyday language had been shaped by the different countries we grew up in. He was born in Syria; I was born in Turkey. Decades of living under different political and linguistic realities had left their mark on our Kurdish. In a strange way, our mother tongue had become almost a second language to both of us. We found ourselves searching for words, borrowing from Arabic, Turkish, and English, until, before long, we had slipped almost entirely into English—on a cold Winnipeg day, far from the mountains of Kurdistan, in the endless flatness of the Canadian prairies.
One thing that endless flatness teaches you is how to bear the flood of memories. There are no mountains to hold them back. You have to find somewhere to channel the weight of the past and the future onto a surface: sometimes a painting, sometimes a piece of wood, sometimes music. The past and the future arrive in brief, concentrated moments, melt into the present, and stretch it out, heavy and seemingly endless. Bistyek embraced this city, and the city embraced him.